A Korean Adoptee Reclaiming Her Name

Korean adoptee Anna Jinja Mather avoided her story for decades. At 47, she finally stopped running and started choosing herself. Her journey will change how you see belonging. In this episode of Voices of Adoption with host Donna Pope, Anna shares her story of being raised by a Norwegian family in Iowa after being adopted as an infant from Seoul, South Korea; she wanted nothing more than to blend in, be popular, and erase the visible differences that set her apart.

A Breakup That Broke Everything Open

At 47, a devastating relationship collapse sent Anna back to her home state to confront a question she had been dodging her entire life. As she began hosting a radio show and asking guests about their stories, she realized she had never asked herself those same questions. That reckoning changed everything.

Naming the Unnamed Pain

Anna describes how the inability to name her trauma kept her stuck in cycles of people-pleasing, walking on eggshells, and attaching her identity to partners who represented everything she wished she could be. Once she named her pain as an adoptee, the patterns started to make sense, and the healing began.

Choosing Yourself Is the Real Adoption

Anna's message to fellow adoptees is direct and specific. Stop waiting for someone else to validate your worth. Stop earning your place. You are adoptable, lovable, and enough, not because of what you do, but because you exist. Her novel Adopting Grace and her podcast The Anna Jinja Show both carry this message forward through story and song.

Listen to Anna Jinja Mather's full conversation with Donna Pope on Voices of Adoption and discover why choosing yourself may be the most important adoption of all. Download Your FREE Guide to Adoption at VoicesofAdoption.org. Like, share, and subscribe to spread the word.

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