An Adoptee’s Story on the Emotional Truth Behind Discovery and Belonging

In this episode of Voices of Adoption, host Donna Pope interview Amy Geller, therapist, researcher, and adoptee born in 1970 during the peak year for domestic infant adoptions. As the only girl and only adoptee in a family with four biological sons, Amy shares perspective on adoption dynamics that help families thrive across generations.

The Discovery That Changed Everything
At 14, Amy discovered her adoption paperwork while searching for letterhead. Seeing herself listed as "Baby Girl" sparked questions that led to a connection with her birth mother. Her adoptive parents' initial uncertainty gave way to support, demonstrating that families can navigate reunion together with openness and courage.

Decades Later, Clarity Arrives
Amy explains "coming out of the fog" as recognizing how adoption has shaped your entire life. Her doctoral research revealed that adoptees benefit most from therapists who remain open to learning alongside their clients. She discovered a 1964 book advocating for acknowledging adoption differences that remain largely unknown today, offering wisdom that can help families build stronger connections.

Amy's journey demonstrates how adoption complexity unfolds across decades, creating opportunities for deeper understanding and stronger family bonds.

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